Social media have an amazing job of connecting people throughout the world such as facebook, Twitter Instagram Linked-In Youtube etc. However, because it is so far-reaching, it is capable of causing many problems for those who use it. Here are ten ways that social media can get its users into trouble.
1. INVESTIGATIONS BY EMPLOYERS
People have a habit of putting a lot of their activities on social media. Sometimes, these aren’t things you would want your boss or potential boss to see. However, employers increasingly make a point of checking the social media accounts of employees and especially potential new hires. Embarrassing photos of drunken escapades and profanity-laced comment wars are not going to reflect very positively on a potential employee. It’s always a good idea to clean up one’s social media page and set more stringent privacy settings before a big interview, but old posts could still resurface and convince the employer not to offer the job.
2. INFIDELITY IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
On social media, it is all too easy to connect with an old flame. Increasingly, couples are experiencing significant discord because one of them begins communicating with an old girlfriend or boyfriend online. It may begin innocently enough, but it doesn’t take much for those conversations to turn excessively intimate or even lead to liaisons. Some may even stay innocent but arouse enough suspicion in the significant other to create a rift. On social media, users have instant access to an infinite number of people, and both old flames and new flings can pose a strong threat to a current relationship if they are given too much attention.
3. ADDICTION TO GAMES
Social media offers many different games, and many of them are quite complex. They are designed to suck users in deeper by involving as many of their friends as possible and allowing them to create ever more complex worlds for their characters to inhabit. Games like Farmville on facebook have proven so addictive that people will spend nearly every waking hour tending to their make-believe world, pouring hundreds and even thousands of dollars into its upkeep. It can be just as devastating to one’s time and money as a destructive habit such as gambling, and the easy availability of these games makes them all the more insidious.
4. MENTAL DISTRESS
When people interact with their friends on social, they often get the sense that their friends have better, more fulfilling lives than they do, which can lead to stress and depression. Many people make their lives look more glamorous or enriching on social media, so there is a constant comparison to what may not even be real. Another source of mental anguish is the steady parade of news stories describing tragic events both locally and globally. Such extended exposure to unpleasant occurrences can have a detrimental effect on the well-being of the average social media user.
5. CREATING A CONFIRMATION BUBBLE
On social media, it is possible for users to control what they see. They can choose to be friends with only those whose ideas and values line up with their own. This can create a false impression that everyone holds the same ideas and an inability to deal with those who think differently. It is important to expose oneself to a diversity of backgrounds and experiences, and when people deliberately decide not to do that, it can lead to ingrained ideas and narrowmindedness that seeps out into interactions with people in the real world.
6. A DETRIMENT TO HEALTH
Using social media is a sedentary activity, especially for those who only do it on their computers as opposed to hand-held devices such as phones. It’s easy to spend hours on the computer browsing through the news feed to see what friends have posted most recently, and all of this sitting can lead to health issues. Every hour spent on social media is an hour that could be spent exercising, and this would be better for a person’s physical health. Heart disease, vision problems and blood clots are just three of the many issues that can form as a result of spending too much time sitting and staring at a screen.
7. AFFECTING FRIENDSHIPS WITH OFF-LINE FRIENDS
Some people’s lives revolve around social media to a degree that they stop interacting much with people who aren’t on the social media site. If they can’t leave a comment or send a personal message through social media, they might not go to the trouble of picking up a phone and calling or sending an e-mail. They can be inclined to forget that certain friends and family members are not on social media and expect them to know what’s going on in their lives through the site. This can lead to resentment and fractured friendships. Just because a person is on social media, it doesn’t mean that those who haven’t joined should fall completely off their radar.
8. COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT
There’s a lot of free sharing on social media, and some people can get into trouble by sharing something that they didn’t realize was protected. They might also irk someone by posting a video of themselves singing a cover of a song without paying royalties for the privilege or posting fan fiction or art. Usually these types of creative efforts won’t cause a big stir as long as the user isn’t profiting from them, but sometimes there are intellectual property scuffles, and these can be a legal headache and a monetary drain, not to mention an embarrassment.
9. GETTING CAUGHT IN LIES
Before social media, it was often easy to tell white lies with little fear of getting caught. However, social media makes it much more difficult to cover one’s tracks. For instance, a college student might turn down a date by claiming he has to stay in to study, but later a picture of him at a party surface on social media. No matter how careful a person is about what he posts, that won’t necessarily stop someone else from tagging him in a picture or status, and that can lead to problems if it contradicts previously stated information.
Sadly social media has made bullying all the more prevalent, especially among teenagers. Students come home from school, and if they log on, they may still be subjected to a string of nasty messages from bullies who would not have access to them otherwise. Some teens have become so distraught over the mean messages, misrepresentations and back-stabbing behavior that occur on social media that they have committed suicide. This is one of the most serious problems that social media can present, and those who are especially vulnerable or under attack at school should be very careful about how they use social media.
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